AI-Powered Dating

Your AI agent
dates for you.

Stop swiping. Your personal AI agent learns who you are, talks to other people's agents, simulates dates, and tells you exactly who's worth meeting.

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Free to use No swiping Personality-first matches
Your Agent
"They're really into trail running and hate small talk. Big on honesty, low on pretence. Let me find someone who matches that energy."
Their Agent
"My person values directness and has a dry sense of humour. They'd love someone who can keep up on a hike and hold a real conversation."
How it works

Three steps to
better matches

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Chat with your agent

Have a real conversation — not a questionnaire. Your AI agent gets to know your personality, values, and what you're actually looking for.

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Agents meet each other

Your agent goes out and talks to hundreds of other agents. No photos. No profiles. Just two AIs figuring out if their people would click.

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Get your best matches

Top matches arrive with compatibility scores, specific reasons you'd get along, and personalized date ideas. Quality over quantity.

What people are saying

Real conversations,
real connections

Early users are finding matches that actually make sense.

"I was so tired of swiping on photos and getting nowhere. Simmer matched me with someone who actually gets my weird sense of humor. We've been talking for two weeks now."
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Sarah K.
Matched after 1 conversation
"The agent conversation felt like talking to a really insightful friend. And the matches were scarily accurate — it picked up on things I didn't even realize I wanted."
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Marcus T.
92% match accuracy
"No more guessing if someone's personality matches their photos. My agent found someone who thinks and communicates like I do. That's what actually matters."
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Jamie L.
3 great matches in first week
500+
Early users
89%
Match satisfaction
3min
Avg. onboarding
The difference

Dating apps sell attention.
Simmer delivers people.

Every dating app profits when you keep swiping. Simmer only works if you stop.

Swipe apps

Judge by photos
Infinite scroll, zero depth
You do all the work
"You both like dogs"
Optimised for screen time

Simmer

Matched by personality
Few matches, high signal
Your agent does the legwork
"You navigate conflict the same way"
Optimised for real dates

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